Walking Through Loss
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Lessons in
Walking Through Loss
We Understand Grief – Our Story
Lesson 1
Charlie and Jill open up about losing their 23-year-old son to cancer—the shattered faith, anger, confusion, and the discovery that God is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18).
They affirm: Grief is normal. God can handle your honesty. He carries you, even when you can’t hardly stand.
Navigating Loss – What’s Going On With Me?
Lesson 2
Charlie and Jill explore why grief feels so confusing and overwhelming—the disheveled emotions, heaviness, crying (or inability to cry), depression, and sense of being “out of it” that many experience after loss.
They affirm that these feelings and emotions are completely normal. Grief is a big deal—not something to dismiss or rush through. There’s no timetable, and God gave grief as a healthy process to walk through pain.
Your Grief Journey – What to Expect
Lesson 3
Charlie and Jill continue the conversation on crying affirming that tears are normal, healthy, and even holy in grief. They share how they cried a lot, why there’s no need to hold back tears, and how Jesus Himself wept.
They affirm that crying is not weakness or lack of faith—it’s a natural, God-given response. Jesus feels your pain, is touched by it, and weeps with you. Everyone grieves differently; take it slow and be patient with your unique journey.
Why Do I Feel So Paralyzed?
Lesson 4
Charlie and Jill describe the shocking numbness and paralysis that often hits early in grief—feeling stunned, like nothing is real, deadened emotions, loss of concentration, low energy, indecisiveness, and short-term memory fog. They share stories of their own personal dysfunction, struggling to accomplish simple, everyday tasks.
They affirm that these symptoms are normal and temporary. You’re not going crazy or losing it—your senses are overwhelmed. Be patient with yourself; God is holding you through this season.
The Many Faces of Loss
Lesson 5
Charlie and Jill speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves (Proverbs 31:8–9), addressing the many different types of loss: widows/widowers, siblings, children/babies, parents, grandparents, and even pets. They share how loss is overlooked or misunderstood; the unique pain of each (loneliness, practical changes, social awkwardness, overlooked sibling grief, blame in marriage); and the need for empathy, forgiveness, and awareness of spiritual warfare to protect relationships.
They affirm that every loss is real and personal. No one fully understands your pain but God does. Be quick to forgive, avoid blame, and guard your marriage/family from the enemy’s schemes.
Be Kind to Yourself (Part 1) – Permission to Be Human
Lesson 6
Charlie and Jill stress being kind to yourself in grief, sharing how a minister friend’s words “be kind to yourself” helped them through life-altering trauma. They discuss self-care, not rushing back to normal, guarding against demands, avoiding blame/unforgiveness that lets the enemy destroy relationships, and the power of listening over “fixing.” They warn of spiritual warfare and encourage running to Jesus for rest.
They affirm that grief traumatizes you; it’s okay to be dysfunctional for a season. The Lord will bandage your wounds and carry you—be patient with yourself and others.
Be Kind to Yourself (Part 2) – Healing and Hope After Loss
Lesson 7
Charlie and Jill continue emphasizing being kind to yourself, sharing how God cares about your soul’s anguish, the pain of people avoiding your loss, why “move on” is unhelpful. Instead, honoring memories, allowing laughter amid grief, and not getting stuck in “why” questions. They acknowledge that asking “why” is okay (like Jesus did) but give the reminder to trust God and live in what you know about Him.
They affirm that God sees your troubles and cares deeply. Be kind to yourself; don’t feel guilty for laughing or needing time. Move forward in baby steps—God carries you until you can walk again.
The Crisis of Faith – When Prayers Seem Unanswered
Lesson 8
Charlie and Jill put a “final cap” on the series by addressing how faith can feel “blown out of the water” after loss, especially when standing in belief for healing that doesn’t come, like their experience with Beau. They share the shattering of expectations (“everything I had hoped for was lost”) and the need to find faith to stand when mountains don’t move.
They affirm that journeys are different; some face double loss (loved one + shattered faith). God is faithful and loving—His mercies are new every morning. He heals broken hearts, He comforts those who mourn, and His love remains above everything.
